Definitely, yes. I also thought that acknowledging my disabilities would indicate I’d “given up,” which is unto itself so ableist. I still strategically disclose in certain contexts (though I suppose writing as I do renders my discretion moot), but I’ve realized that validating my struggles doesn’t mean I’ve suddenly opted out of life – I can just be more honest with myself about who meaningfully enhances my life and who has unreasonable demands that make me more unwell.