Absolutely. I’m glad you’ve made it work. The distinction between those with and without diagnoses is the stigma that accompany the former: most of the comments here commend you for “putting up with” your partner in one way or another. However, we have little real insight into what your dynamic actually is. In this context you have more power, and as someone with many labels, far too often I’ve seen them weaponized to undermine very real grievances I’ve had.